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13
Oct

Losing A Wallet (or Purse!)

If you follow my Twitter at all, you will have noticed that I lost my wallet yesterday.  I didn’t discover this loss until today, when I went to work and realized it wasn’t in the pocket it belonged in.  After getting angry with myself for misplacing it (which I’m about 90% certain I did at this point), and tearing the house apart looking for it (multiple times), I realized that this isn’t the end of the world, and that everything in there can be replaced.  Take the time to read this article and prepare youself for the inevitable loss of your wallet or purse!

One thing I want to point out is the importance of having copies of your documents available (front AND back).  Preferably, have a digital copy and a hard copy or two.  Keep them in safe, secure places, and your life will be infinitely easier!

1.  Replacing your license / ID:  This will vary from state to state, however here in New York I would be able to order online.  However, since I cancelled my debit card before I did this (ARGH!), I’ll be going to the DMV to shell out $15 in cash for the replacement.

2.  Replacing your Social Security card:  First off, this should never have been in my wallet.  There is NO reason to carry your social security card with you on a day to day basis.  However, I will be able to replace this document as well.  Information on what you need can be found at the Social Security Administration’s website.  Basically, I’ll need the application, proof of birth via a certified copy of my birth certificate, and proof of identity via a non expired photo ID.  However, since my license was in my wallet, I’ll be using my photo ID from college.  At least it has a good photo.  If I had a passport, they can use this to verify birth AND identity, killing two birds with one stone!

3.  Credit Cards, Debit Cards:  In a bit of luck, I actually had all of my account numbers, phone numbers for the companies, and access information saved in a spreadsheet already from when I was creating my budget.  If you don’t have all of this information in one place, I suggest you find a way of recording it and securing it (NOT in your wallet!)  This made the entire task of locking down accounts and ordering new cards much easier, and it only took me about half an hour to handle all of the accounts.

4.  Miscellaneous:  You may have other things in your wallet that need replacement such as student IDs, certification cards (lost my CPR and EMT cards!), etc.  These will have to be handled on a case by case basis.  Having copies of my CPR and EMT cards will be a big help in getting copies.

Lessons learned:  While it sucks to lose a wallet, it won’t be the end of the world.  I’ve learned what I need to do to get new copies of everything, found the flaws in my backups, and will (ultimately) grow from the experience.

22
May

Facing My Fears

One of the biggest problems I have is facing my fears.  I don’t think I’m alone when I say that, either.  It seems that often times people would rather avoid doing something, sating something, or being something, because they have a fear.  Fear of rejection, fear of failure, and in my case, fear of death via a large mechanical device flying off a track.  The idea of a roller coaster failing with me on it is TERRIFYING!

This past week, my room mates Matt and Patrick, as well as our friend Ian, decided that I needed to conquer this fear.  Let me rephrase this.  Matt and Patrick, coaster enthusiasts, decide to break Ian and I, flat footed soil bound folk, into the wonderful world of coaster at Cedar Point in Ohio.

More after the jump.

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07
Apr

Money Can’t Buy Happiness

It’s a common misconception that professional athletes such as professional football players don’t have to deal with financial strains that many average people face on a weekly basis when their paycheck comes through and the bills are sitting on the table. A recent article posted on the NFL Players Association website brought to light a situation that I never thought existed.

The average player coming into the league just out of college starts at $285,000 a year and after taxes and deductions they round that figure down to about $147,000 a year. One thing that surprises me is that many of these players are financially struggling during the off season because they only get paid 17 weeks out of a 52-week year, and stretching that money gets more and more difficult as time goes on. One of the main reasons is that these players have never been required to budget such a large amount of money, so they go on spending sprees and other frivolous endeavors. When it comes time to live during the off-season, they find themselves in financial trouble.

The article discusses creating a cash flow plan for these players which would break their finances down into two different types:

  1. Sure Money- the player’s salary
  2. Extra Money- profit gained from endorsements, league bonuses, and any other cash not gained directly from their league check.

The article further explains that the “sure money” account would be broken down into four separate accounts with the player’s bank. The first account would be the holding account where the money is originally deposited. From there, the money would be broken down into:

  • Operating Account: all money for bills and personal spending would be filtered into this account.
  • Major Expense Account: property taxes, insurance, etc. would end up in this account.
  • Emergency Account: 3-6 months salary that is saved up so that all bills could be covered in the case of an emergency.

The article also discusses the basic budgeting premises that many of us have come to be familiar with. This includes developing a budget that allows you to live within your means, as well as being able to put money away for times when you many not have an income. This is especially important to the NFL player outside of that 17-week season when a paycheck is coming in regularly.

According to the article, many players will take their extra money and blow it on things that may not be necessary instead of saving it or putting it in to smart investments that will help them continue to live the comfortable lifestyle that they’ve become accustom to when they retire.

The article discusses how taxes would affect these incoming finances, oftentimes with a 50% tax. “1 Million dollars quickly becomes $500,000″ and it would help if that money was put into an investment vehicle in order to get more benefit from that money.

This article stunned me in that I never considered that a professional football player would have the same problems as Average Joe when it comes to finances simply because of the pay schedule they’re in. When you stop and think about it, you have to realize that proper budgeting and financial management is not just a skill that comes easier when you have more money; it’s a skill that must be learned, and one that must be practiced throughout the course of your career.

09
Mar

Awaken to a New Idea

Light Bulb IdeaHave you ever been awakened to a new idea? Think about the last time you were in the market for something new, such as a car. You are probably exposed to 30 car ads every day, through the newspaper, tv, radio, billboards, advertisements on the sides of busses, and other places. Usually, these ads are easy to ignore. Your mind skips right over the advertisement, and your exposure is minimal. Now, you are looking for a new car. Suddenly, every car ad piques your interest. You are being awakened to the idea of purchasing a new car, and your mind is responding accordingly, by forcing you to absorb information on this new idea.

How can you use this to improve a presentation?

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